All Rights Reserved TheBody: I have met only one guy so far. Have you ever cheated on a partner when in a monogamous relationship? Right besides a gay bar, and how will I tell the difference between Mr. Sure, you might be losing a boyfriend, but at least you'll be gaining an ounce of integrity.
How and when you tell people is a personal and instinctual decision, and I'm sure you'll find your own way to handle it as gracefully as you leapt over that first coming-out hurdle.
I have a rule against dating psychics. It may feel enticing to never mention the journal reading or the resulting encounter ever again. Jack is a work of fiction created by L. I just want to be able to be in peace and somehow let him know I loved him with everything in me. Or maybe long-term relationships aren't for you, PFFT! This will avoid a lot of arguments. I'm in an unhappy relationship with my boyfriend of four years.
It all boils down to this. It may feel enticing to never mention the journal reading or the resulting encounter ever again. My greatest hope for you is that you get to this place as well. However, if you want to give him the benefit of the doubt, I'd use my method, which is a little crude and obvious, but effective. It's about keeping that spark alive. Three months ago, however, I tested HIV-positive and since then feel like I have to come out all over again. I was in the mindset that jumping in at the level I was before I fell off the wagon, despite being way out of practice, and struggling at something that used to be easy for me would definitely get me motivated.